Dating Tips for Guys – I Bet You Have Been Fed False Information!

So many men are looking for good, solid dating tips for guys – yet when they get the dating tips they are looking for, they misinterpret it and turn it into a misguided persona that ends up driving away ladies faster than a cattle prod makes a cow jump. Guys want to be an alpha male – they want to be leaders of the pack – confident, successful and attractive to ladies.

Yet they take this virtue and turn it into something wrong – something opposite, arrogant, derisive and unattractive.

So I am sure you have obviously heard about how to be and alpha male, right? Of course you have. But most men get it all wrong, because they take the common virtues that ladies have, such as kindness, compassion and generosity, and think that in order to be a masculine man or an alpha male, that a man has to be the OPPOSITE of this.

Simply not true.

If you want to be a man, a real man who is a leader and a go getter, someone with confidence and appeal to ladies, you have to learn to master the virtues of what a real alpha male is. Real alpha men are not …

• malicious
• without thought
• arrogant
• cruel
• vicious

Real alpha men ARE, on the other hand…

honest
confident
caring
compassionate
altruistic
leaders

Guys, being stereotyped as false alpha males, are often thought to be without the virtues and attributes commonly thought of as womanly or feminine. However, virtues and characteristics of the alpha male are the characteristics and attributes that one would want to see in a good, strong, faithful leader – no matter what gender that leader is.

For instance, an alpha male, as the leader of his “pack”, will look out for the good of his group. If we consider the group to be his family, he is a thoughtful father who takes care of and provides for his children. He teaches them strong and virtues such as truthfulness, helpfulness, honesty and caring. He teaches them to treat people with dignity and respect, but he also teaches them to treat themselves with dignity and respect, caring for oneself by taking care of the body, mind and spirit.

Alpha males do not allow others to push them around and cheat, lie or steal. They stand up for those who are in need, fight for virtue and honesty, defend the weak, help the poor and sick and provide for those less able and less fortunate than themselves.

Put in some terms, some folks might think to call these feminine or motherly virtues – however, they can just as easily be applied to the man who has a true and strong idea of his own characteristics. Vices and virtues are equally applied to both sexes, and simply because ladies carry the stereotype for having one set of virtues does not mean that the men , the REAL men, have to be the opposite.

There is nothing manly about kicking those who are down, war, rape, pillage and thievery. There is no honor in making fun of people, capitalizing on the downfalls and problems of others. Alpha males do not do this – they are upright and strong, not needing to look for the misfortune of others in order to get ahead of the game.

If you want to learn a little more about being a real alpha male that attracts ladies, check out this free dating tips for men video by Scot McKay and learn a very simple step that YOU can take today to become the alpha man that women are attracted to.